Years


50

Programs


35

Families


100000

Scholars


8500

It’s hard to believe that more than five decades have passed since a small group of dedicated individuals gathered together around a kitchen table in New Jersey. Led by foster parents Sue and Bernie Dondiego, along with Hattie Talley, this passionate group envisioned a brighter future for foster, kinship, and adoptive families in our state. From those humble beginnings emerged the New Jersey Foster Parents Association (NJFPA), later evolving into Foster and Adoptive Family Services (FAFS), and finally becoming embrella.

As we celebrate our past achievements and look ahead to the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead, we invite you to
join us in honoring our 50-year legacy of Community and Connection.

We want to hear from YOU!

We invite you to be a part of our 50th Anniversary by sharing your experiences, wisdom, and insights throughout your time with us.

THE 1970s

New Jersey Foster Parents Association is founded 

Foster parents Sue and Bernie Dondiego and Hattie Talley sit at a kitchen table and discuss issues facing foster parents and how to work together to bring about positive change for the children in their homes.

1972

NJFPA is incorporated 

 

Foster parents Sue and Bernie Dondiego and Hattie Talley sit at a kitchen table and discuss issues facing foster parents and how to work together to bring about positive change for the children in their homes.

1974

NJFPA holds its first meeting at the Shiloh Baptist Church in Trenton, NJ

1974

NJFPA takes part in NJ Action for Foster Children in State Chambers, State House and members march to the State House to meet with Governor Byrne

1974

NJFPA holds first statewide training conference on foster care

1974

NJFPA receives state funding through the Division of Youth and Family Services (DYFS), now known as the Division of Child Protection and Permanency (CP&P)

1974

NJFPA establishes State level committees developed to serve foster parents

1975

NJFPA representatives serve on the committee that establishes uniform statewide mandatory pre-service training for foster parents

1978

NJFPA representatives serve on a committee to establish Child Placement Review Boards

1978

NJFPA representative and other child advocates testify at Joint Appropriation Hearing and successfully receive a 26% increase in reimbursement rates for children in foster care

1978
THE 1980s

NJFPA's partnership with DYFS (now known as Department of Children and Families) begins

1983

NJFPA becomes the first state association to receive state funding for advocacy, in-service training, and recruitment of foster homes 

1983

The Hattie Talley Scholarship Fund is founded 

1983

NJFPA receives DYFS (now known as CP&P) policy regarding foster care for review and comment before implementation

1983

Support Groups for Foster Parents (now known as Connecting Families Meetings) are in every county in NJ 

1983

Legislation on foster care programs/services amounting to over four million dollars introduced in Senate and Assembly

1983

Governor Thomas Kean designates May as Foster Parent Month in NJ

1983

Governor Thomas H. Kean accepts the national "Team Player Award" from Sue Dondiego


New Jersey became the first recipient of the award which recognizes the state's innovative foster parent training and recruitment programs.

1986

Touch A Life (Become a Foster Parent) ad campaign debuts

Created for NJFPA from donations of professional service through the NJ Council on Advertising

1986

Liability insurance program for foster parents established

1987

Support Workers (now known as embrella Family Support Advocates) added to staffing of NJFPA

1987

NJFPA Training Meeting June 9, Proposed adding new staff position, training specialist, under supervision of Training Coordinators.

1988

The 1990s

THE 1990s

NJFPA worked with the Child Welfare League of America (CWLA) on the National Commission on Family Foster Care. 

1990

The Circle of Support – Caring for Children and Families with HIV conference held – NJFPA sponsored (with many others) 

1990

The Foster Allegation Support Team (FAST) Program – created by NJFPA in cooperation with DYFS, the program provides non-judgmental support to foster parents coping with abuse and neglect allegations

1990

NJFPA sponsored bus from Newark to Washington for AIDS awareness day

1991

NJFPA office moved to Monmouth Junction

1994

Dozens of foster parents and staff representing 15 counties, met with their New Jersey Legislators on March 13, 1995, to voice their concerns on issues involving foster care and adoption

1995

Over 125 people enjoyed a day of recreation and entertainment at Johnson Park in Middlesex County at the annual picnic

1995

Over 82 foster parents and staff met with their New Jersey legislators on May 22, 1997 to voice their concens on issues involving foster care and adoption

1997

Backpack Program launches in partnership with Senator Vitale and Stand for Children

1998

Private Scholarship Program is launched to provide financial assistance, as a scholarship for academic purposes or funding for living expenses for those in school or working

1998

DYFS (now known as CP&P) Info line contracted -- NJFPA was now responsible for running the recruitment hotline: 1-877-NJFOSTERS

1999

The 2000s

THE 2000s

NJFPA rebrands to FAFS (Foster and Adoptive Family Services) 

 

2000

Long Valley Presbyterian Church makes donation To help foster parents provide their children in care with the "little extras" that all children deserve but may not be able to receive due to financial constraints. The program offers up to one $75 mini-grant per year per child 

2000

First Annual Holiday Toy Drive

2001

Fostering Wishes for Children is started in partnership with Long Valley Presbyterian Church

2001

In July, FAFS added staffing to begin the The New Jersey Foster Care (NJFC) Scholars Program. The NJFC program was put into place after Governor McGreevey signed the Tuition Waiver Bill. Through the passing of this legislation, eligible foster and homeless youth may receive assistance with tuition and fees (not including room and board) at a public New Jersey college, university, or vocational school.

2003

FAFS holds first annual car show, Rev Your Engines For Our Kids, which raised over $2,600 for FAFS' privately-funded programs and services and helped raise awareness about foster care in New Jersey

2004

Camp Scholarships launched in partnership with Zion Baptist Church, Long Valley Presbyterian Church, and Camp Johnsonburg.

2006

The 2010s

THE 2010s

FAFS Foundation hosts its inaugural A Day at the Races - A Kentucky Derby Celebration to Support Children in Foster Care event

2010

FAFS gets social by joining Facebook and Twitter

2012

FAFS offers new training modality - webinars

2012

FAFS' staff participates in DCF Private Scholarship Committee to assist in establishing scholarship criteria for a limited DCF Scholarship Fund

2012

FAFS selected as Foster Parent Association of the Year by NFPA (photo of Sue accepting award) for the organization’s nearly 40 years of unwavering support of foster parents

2012

FAFS begins Blogging

2013

FAFS Launches our foster care newsletter, News from Our Heart -- now known as Otterly embrella News (OEN), which spotlights topics of interest to the foster care community from both a local and a national perspective

2013

FAFS launches the Self Esteem Dreams (now Dreamers and Believers) program, which allows children who are, or were in foster care, the opportunity to try out their dreams, with a grant from the Dreams R Us Foundation

2013

FAFS celebrates the 10-year anniversary of the NJFC Scholars Program

2013

FAFS 40th Anniversary!

2014

Breaking the Housing/Textbook barrier Educational supports introduced to provide semester based awards for textbooks and educational necessities, not covered by financial aid, to students who have resided in transitional housing or independent living programs due to homelessness

2014

The Dreams R Us Foundation increases program offerings to $600 per year per child in foster, kinship, or adoptive care

2014

FAFS introduces A Place in Our Heart, a fund reserved for foster, kinship, and adoptive families who experience a catastrophic event, such as a house fire, etc.

2015

FAFS launches redesigned mobile friendly www.fafsonline.org

2015

FAFS' staff participate in DCF Resource Family Retention Task Force charged with identifying and recommending the action steps for the framework of New Jersey's Resource Family Retention Plan

2015

FAFS receives grant from Junior League of the Oranges and Short Hills (JLOSH) for backpack distribution event in Essex county

2015

DCF connects FAFS with Photosafe, a nonprofit organization who captures and prints digital images to preserve memories for children in care. Photosafe begins attending FAFS recreational events.

2015

FAFS creates PRIDE video to be shown at PRIDE trainings throughout NJ

2015

FAFS expands peer to peer services to include the Resource Parents Speakers Bureau and introduces the Heart to Heart Mentoring program, pairing new and experienced foster parents to help retain resource homes.

2016

As of 8/30/16, undocumented/visa students who meet case history eligibility are now eligible to use State Tuition Waiver funding in the NJFC Scholars Program.

2016

Scholarship expanded with PACES program ; embrella employee sponsored scholarship created.

2017

NJFC 15th Anniversary

2018

FAFS Family Support and Community Education Dept merge and introduce 9 Family Support Advocates

2019

FAFS rebrands to embrella

2019

The 2020s

THE 2020s

Hosted weekly webinars "Caregivers Dealing with COVID-19" to share updates and policy changes to caregivers as well as reviewed areas such as stress mgmt for caregivers, how to talk to youth in their home about COVID and how to prevent COVID in their home

2020

embrella DEIB Committee Initiated

2021

embrella onboards The Bag Project as a new program

2022

NJFC 20th Anniversary

2023

embrella's P.E.A.C.E. Initiative program begins

2023

embrella celebrates 50 years of Community and Connection!

2024